Is getting pegged gay

And then there are the taboos around pegging that stem from homophobia. Sure, historically a woman putting on a strap-on could often elude to sexual intercourse with another woman — and that's. That’s why some men believe it’s possible for any sex act with a woman to be called “gay.” The Sopranos expertly satirized this idea in an episode about whether or not it was gay for a man to eat pussy.

Liking being pegged doesn't make you gay. Being gay is exclusive or near exclusive attraction to men if you are a man. If you like having your butt stimulated, that just means you are anatomically aware. If you like women exclusively or almost exclusively, then you are heterosexual. If you like both, then you're bisexual.

In todays episode of the podcast we discuss whether or not, being pegged makes you you want to ask us anything send us an email at: thecuckooshow@gmai. Does it mean he’s secretly gay? Or worse: can I still be attracted to him — or respect his masculinity — after I’ve pegged him?.

No, not gay, because putting things

If was the year of eating ass , will be the year of pegging. But despite its recent surge in pop culture, in part thanks to shows like Broad City and movies like Deadpool, the act still remains largely taboo. A magic pleasure button, if you will. Aside from the intense physical pleasure, one of the best aspects of pegging in a cis, hetero relationship is that it inverts the traditional framework of gender and sexual roles.

According to a study published in the journal Sex Roles, clinging to traditional gender roles could make us feel less comfortable between the sheets, and research by sexuality educator Dr. Charlie Glickman also shows that straight men who had tried pegging were more in tune with what their female partner needed from them during penetration.

So pegging could not only give men a more intense orgasm, but it could possibly teach them a thing or two on how to pleasure women; basically, a win win. When you think about it, pegging is still standard heterosexual PIV sex because the bottom line pun intended is putting something inside a hole.

It simply works the other way around. Indulging in something that is taboo helps chip away the stigma, which helps people get over their insecurities about what turns them on. Talking about all kinds of sex, urges and curiosities is the first step towards a fulfilling sex life, and no one should feel ashamed to discuss their sexual preferences.

And because sex should always be a judgement free zone, here, seven straight men share their experience with pegging anonymously, because society is still a little prudish. However, as my relationships started to become more stable, I found that pegging added an extra dimension to my sex life. I was also very curious about prostate stimulation that is mentioned constantly in many sex articles, so this became something I wanted to try.

I suffer from erectile dysfunction so the allure of pegging was that it took the focus off the penis. The prostate is basically the male g-spot so it means men who struggle with staying hard can reach orgasm without any penis stimulation at all. Once I realised how good it felt to have your anus stimulated through rimjobs, it kind of snowballed. My girlfriend and I both started using butt plugs on each other, then we tried vibrators, then dildos.

If your gal is willing to try I recommend going for it, easy as that. The show is available now on iTunes here and on Soundcloud here. Metro bloggers Miranda Kane and Bibi Lynch co-host the show, chatting to a different guest about all things sex and relationships each week. Arrow MORE: 6 people share their most embarrassing sex toy incidents.

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